Supporting Children Through Loss and Grief


Glassybaby Candle Hudson

*Glassybaby name: Hudson

Today's article is in memory of my favorite little strong, amazing fighter...miss you so much buddy - we think of you and speak of our memories so often.

Supporting children through loss and grief is a delicate process that requires compassion and understanding. When children face the pain of losing a loved one, whether through death, divorce, or other circumstances, they often experience a range of emotions that can be overwhelming. Here are some essential ways to help children navigate the challenging journey of grief:

1. Open Communication: Create a safe space for children to express their feelings. Encourage open communication by letting them know it's okay to talk about their emotions. Answer their questions honestly, using age-appropriate language, and be patient as they process the information.

2. Validate Emotions: Let children know that their feelings are valid. Grief can manifest in various ways, from sadness to anger and confusion. By acknowledging and accepting their emotions, you are helping them understand that it's okay to feel a wide range of feelings during this difficult time.

3. Keep Routines: Consistency can provide a sense of stability for children amidst the chaos of loss. Try to maintain regular routines as much as possible. Predictability can be comforting and help children feel a sense of control in an otherwise uncertain situation.

4. Encourage Expression: Children may not always have the words to express their grief verbally. Encourage them to express themselves through drawing, writing, or other creative outlets. Art and play can be powerful tools for processing emotions. FeelLinks Plush Emotion Dolls and FeelLinks Feeling Journal, are supportive tools for emotional expression.

5. Reassurance: Reassure children that they are loved and supported. Loss can create feelings of abandonment or insecurity. Offer comfort by consistently demonstrating your presence and commitment to their well-being.

6. Seek Professional Help: If necessary, consider involving a grief counselor or therapist specializing in children's grief. Professional support can provide additional tools and strategies to help children cope with their emotions.

7. Involve Them: Include children in memorial rituals or ceremonies as these can offer a sense of closure and allow them to express their goodbyes in a way that feels meaningful to them. This may involve creating a memorial, attending a funeral, a celebration of life, or participating in other cultural practices.

8. Monitor Behavior: Keep a watchful eye on any significant changes in behavior, such as withdrawal, changes in eating habits, difficulties sleeping or bed wetting. These could be signs that a child is struggling to cope, and professional intervention may be needed.

9. Encourage Positive Memories: Foster an environment where positive memories of the loved one can be shared and celebrated. Reminisce about happy times, encouraging the child to focus on the positive aspects of the relationship.

10. Practice Self-Care: Supporting a grieving child can be emotionally taxing. Take care of your own well-being to ensure you can be a stable and supportive presence for the child. Seek support from friends, family, or professionals if needed.

Navigating grief is a unique and personal journey for each child. By providing understanding, empathy, and consistent support, adults can help children build resilience and find ways to cope with loss in a healthy manner.

For those out there experiencing grief, my heart is with you. I hope that today's article is supportive to you.

xoxo Marcelle #livelikehudson

Below are a few books and other resources that I recommend. There are so many great ones out there, these are just a few...

For Children:

The Invisible String by Patrice Karst *she has a series of books

You'll Find Me by Amanda Rawson Hill

The Goodbye Book by Todd Parr

Memory Jars by Vera Brosgol

A Memory Box by Joanne Rowland

For you:

Grief Is Love: Living with Loss by Marisa Renee Lee

Finding the Words by Colin Campbell


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